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guess again gotta love the folks who say people just deconstruct so they can have sex with whoever they want / I’m 46 and have never had sex with someone I wasn’t married to / will I ever? / can’t say but I started deconstructing 10+ years ago so I’d say it’s safe to assume horny wasn’t my prime motivation
guess again
Deconstructing is way more difficult and life-changing than just saying "oops, I messed up," asking forgiveness and crying about it for a day (like everyone else in the faith does). Nobody would choose to deconstruct just for sex. Nobody.
OMG, I love this! After years of bad married s*x, I’m not eager to just take a tumble in the hay with the next person who makes eye contact with me for longer than a glance. Horny had zero to do with my choice to deconstruct and ask questions regarding my faith journey.