write your feeeeelings ah, the holidays are upon us— magical, warm and fuzzy, twinkle-lighty, happy sigh ugh, the holidays are upon us— stressful, angsty, guilt-ridden, triggering, sad and lonely sigh both/and, right? especially if you find yourself in the middle (or on the other side) of any sort of deconstruction you know what helps me when my feelings get to be too much?